by Linda-Ann Stewart
People are attracted to you, personally and professionally,
based on your behavior and what you stand for. In business, many times, this is
called your brand. But in your personal life, people also decide whether you’re
trustworthy, someone they want to spend time with or be around, based on this
same standard. And all of this is grounded in your values, the beliefs that
promote your actions and attitudes.
Positive and Negative
Some values are positive, such as integrity, determination,
and compassion. But not all values are constructive. I’ve known people who were
proud of personal values such as, manipulation, deception, and carrying a
grudge. Negative values like these are based on fear and insecurity. They’re
defensive and developed to react to external circumstances. Positive values are
internally motivated and proactive. They allow you to be intentional and choose
your actions deliberately.
You can reframe a negative value to be more beneficial. For
instance, a negative value, like being crafty or cunning, often means you’re scheming
or dishonest. This value was probably created to deal with situations where you
were concerned someone would take advantage of you. However, reframing that
value to one of being clever or innovative allows you to approach situations
from a stronger and more resourceful position.
Why Knowing Your
Values Is Important
When you know what your values are, you’re able to make
decisions based on them that support those principles. Living according to your
values increases your self-esteem, self-respect, and sense of authenticity. Your
image and perception of yourself will improve, as will your self-confidence.
You’ll be known by what you stand for, and people who appreciate what you value
will be attracted to you. What values are most important to you? Those are the
ones that show the world who you are.
My values are important to me and I choose to live by my values. They are beliefs and ideas that put me in alignment with my deepest self and the Universe. I feel at peace with myself when I stand by them, even when it’s inconvenient. I support and empower myself when I act on them, and the Universe approves of me, as well.
Watch the accompanying video, Act on Your Values to Improve Your Well Being.
As a vision strategist, hypnotherapist, and speaker, Linda-Ann Stewart helps women entrepreneurs and small business owners who feel stuck, immobilized and overwhelmed to to get clear, focused and on the fast track to the next level of their business. To achieve a 90-day goal more easily, sign up for her FREE comprehensive Strategic Vision blueprint at www.Linda-AnnStewart.com/setyourcourse.html
. You can contact her at LAS@Linda-AnnStewart.com or 928-600-0452.